The Reason
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Soup Profiles 
We may come from different backgrounds, be of different races, speak different languages and have different interests but at the end of the day, we have all ended up in the same bowl of soup. As we expand into our latest wing, the soup blog, let us introduce our resident bloggers.
Chief Editor:
thesoupistooboss - Oversees the day to day operations of the soup
US Correspondent:
thesoupistooxxx - Based in Annapolis, thesoupistooxxx provides insight into the workings of the American society for our predominant Asian base.
Legal Correspondent:
thesoupistoosweet - A future legal eagle in the making.
Finance Correspondent:
thesoupistoofumo - Get a bigger picture of what's happening in the markets around you.
IT Correspondent:
thesoupistookinky - Our resident IT guy. Able to blog anywhere with an EEE PC permanently by his side.
Teenage Writer:
thesoupistooid - As we pass from our turbulent adolescence into adulthood, thesoupistooid seeks to keep us informed of the latest happenings with today's youth.
Anime Host:
thesoupistoogayy - Wondering what anime to watch? Or what's going to be released? Let our anime host tell you more.
Uncle Agony:
thesoupistoosalty -
Are you feeling blue? Is work getting you down? Are you having troubles with your relationship? Look no further than thesoupistoosalty and allow him to provide you with some of his invaluable advice.
Fitness Guru:
thesoupistoopradz -
Equipped with a state-of-the-art gymnasium, weekly workouts are in order.
Illustrator:
thesoupistooheng -
ze artistic flavour is brought out by the one and only.
We would also like to introduce our lovely covergirls! Girls like them are as hard to come by as it gets and we're thanking our lucky soups that they're here to stay. Lets us introduce, the beautiful, the stunning and the sexy CHENG, NETTE, AND EMMI!
*applause*
Saturday, April 5, 2008
my views on pms
long since i wrote anything proper...
PMS.. well fact is it is getting more rampant in our society today..
though i must agree that it will be good that you leave sth "special" for your spouse.
it will be very pleasant to know that both are each other's first.. it brings about a very special bond between the two of you.. knowing that you are indeed each other's..
on the contrary, i wouldn't see PMS as merely a form of pleasure activity, but of course it will be if you abuse it.. that would be casual sex.. which i would say a no no to.. PMS, if you see it as a activity that binds two person closer in a relationship, it may seem pretty reasonable to engage in it.. BUT both party must be willing to bear any consequences..
PMS, we shouldn't view it as a complete taboo.. you must really see where are you coming from.. from a religious perspective, definitely no go because the religious books and leaders says so.. from a conservative point of view, no go because virginity is special, should be treasured and kept for the right one.. from a partial liberal point of view, can go but depends who the partner is.. he/she must be someone whom i trust and will be willing to commit in a long-term relationship with me.. from a very liberal point of view, just go because it is just a pleasurable activity..
so it all depends on the person and what kind of values he carries..
for me.. i take on partial liberal.. not that i dont treasure this virginity, which i do.. just that if i find someone whom i feel gonna be my spouse.. i will let nature take its course.. if the relationship happens to develop that far, and both parties know what is happening.. then.. there it goes..
sometimes, intimacy is necessary in a relationship.. but it should not become the basis of it.. why do you want to hold your girlfriend's hand? because it brings two of you closer. connected physically. it also brings about security, knowing that you both belonged t0 each other.. having any PMS in between, can be said to be pretty similar.. it can strengthen your relationship to a certain extent.
however, one must take note that intimacy must be stop before the point of lust.. it is a deadly sin.. never lust, just love.. lust is when you desire that feeling of pleasure than the feeling of the person beside you..
conclusion: if it comes, it will come.. PMS... not very good, but not very bad either.. it depends on circumstances..
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